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Intimacy attitudes

How you think about sex and closeness

Partners can love each other and still see sex and intimacy differently. This optional, private test looks at four attitudes: openness to sex outside commitment, sex as emotional closeness, sex as pleasure and play, and putting commitment first. It is never shown in an invitation.

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What you will see

Four scores from 0 to 100, private to you.

  • Openness
  • Closeness
  • Pleasure and play
  • Commitment first

Test details

  • 12 questions
  • 2 min

About this test

Original, non-explicit items on four attitudes to sex and intimacy, after research on sexual attitudes (Hendrick and Hendrick) and sociosexual orientation (Simpson and Gangestad), three per attitude.

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